What Birth Flower Matches Your Personality?
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Which birth flower matches your personality? Each month has a different flower associated with it, so depending on your birth date, you have a birth flower. This is very similar to the birth stones with which people are more familiar.
The tradition likely dates back to at least the Romans, who used flowers to celebrate birthdays.
January’s flower is the carnation, which blooms in the colder weather in places that do not freeze. February has the violet, which symbolizes faithfulness, wisdom and hope. The daffodil is the March flower and is associated with spring and rebirth.
April has the sweet pea, youth and purity are its hallmarks. May is the lily of the valley, a flower of humility and sweetness. June is the rose, representing love and appreciation.
July gets the larkspur, with its levity and lightness. August is the gladiolus, a flower I have never heard of, which represents strength and remembrance.
The aster goes with September and is associated with patience and affection. October has the marigold, warm and fierce. November is chrysanthemum, which represents compassion and friendship. Finally, December gets the poinsettia, with its good cheer and success.
What flower did you get?
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What Is Your Strongest Mental Ability?
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Mental ability is defined as “the power to learn or retain knowledge.” Even though it sounds very simple and straightforward, it’s actually not. How we learn is complex and varies wildly from one individual to another. Some people approach new things and problems in a creative or hands on manner, while others are more logical.
Then there are those people who analyze every situation and possible outcome to it. And don’t forget their polar opposites, the rare few who panic and shut down in the face of an unfamiliar challenge.
Test to see what your strongest mental ability may be. Go explore beyond whether or not you’re right or left brained, and plumb the deeper parts of your vastly complex mind, who knows- the results may just surprise you!
What is your strongest mental ability? Let us know!
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7 Clear Signs a Narcissist is Manipulating You.
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When it comes to the types of people in our lives who are simply not good for us, narcissist manipulators rank among the top most toxic of all. They’re the individuals who care only about themselves and who stop at nothing to get exactly what they want. As such, a narcissist will always selfishly place their own needs, desires, and emotions first when making decisions and they won’t think twice about using people for their own advantage. They are relentless in their quest for personal power and success which is why they’re so manipulative, deceitful, and bad to be around.
If you’ve ever had the misfortune of having to deal with a manipulative narcissist then you should be well aware of just how exploitative and driven they can be. By knowing their tactics and how they operate, you can counteract the negative effects of their behavior and protect yourself. Here are 7 ways in which narcissists manipulate and use others to their advantage:
1. They Play the Victim.
Narcissists love playing mind games and pretending to be a victim is one of their favorites. They get more attention and pity from others when they lead them to believe they are sick, in trouble, or need help. When you feel sorry for them you’re more likely want to help them out, and that’s exactly what they want. They also use this tactic as a way to justify or excuse their terrible behavior. Also, by turning your focus away from all the negative, deceitful things they’ve done, they make you less guarded and therefore more open to even more manipulation on their end.
2. They Use Aggression and Intimidation.
One thing that all narcissists use is scare tactics. They employ everything from subtle, underhand threats to overt physical violence in order to bully others into giving in and bending to their will. More often than not the intimidation is psychological and emotional in nature. They might keep you from seeing family and friends or always put you down and verbally assault you because it makes them feel dominant and in control.
3. They Downplay Your Accomplishments.
When you first meet a narcissist they often hide their true colors and come off as actually quite charming. They compliment and build you up just so they can tear you down later. When that happens it’s as if a switch gets suddenly flipped and all of those kind words go out the door. They will devalue your accomplishments and pride so that you work extra hard to regain their favor and please them.
4. They Guilt You Into Thinking Everything is Your Fault.
They blame you for all of their bad behavior along with all of the trouble and repercussions it brings with it. No matter what the facts or situation may be, it’s inevitably your fault.
5. They Only Talk About Themselves.
It’s a dead give away you’re dealing with a narcissist when all that the person talks about is anything and everything related to them. They have nothing good to say about anything else and can drone on endlessly about themselves. When you do finally get a word in and switch the topic, they will steer the focus right back to them as if they didn’t even hear a word you said in the first place.
6. They Use Triangulation.
This is when a narcissist, you, and one other person are all involved in a triangular mind game of sorts. The other person is brought in by the narcissist after they have been led to believe that you are in the wrong or the problem. Basically, by pitting you and a third party against each other the heat is taken off the narcissist, as is any blame, and they get off scot-free. The other person will also stand up for and support them and this feeds right into their need to be liked and perceived as right all the time.
7. They Never Change.
Once a narcissist, always a narcissist. They will continue to act shallow, manipulate, and deceitful until the day they die. There is no medicine or cure for them, therapy is ineffective as well. Their issues are rooted deep in their minds and ingrained in their personalities. Even after you’ve removed them from your life, they will simply move on to their next unsuspecting victim and start ruining their life.
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What Does Your Finger Shape Reveal About You?
There are many ways in which an individual’s personality has been linked to various personal physical attributes. However, there is one body part that stands out above all the rest, and that is our hands. For example, we often compare and contrast left handed people with individuals who are right hand dominant.
Alternatively, in palmistry the lines on the palms of our hands are closely examined, which can indicate our character traits, personality, and destiny in life. Our hands seem to hold the most information about our lives and they reveal subtle clues in regards to the way we act, make choices, and behave in general.
Another way in which we can analyze our personalities is by looking at the shape of our fingers. You can do this yourself by simply analyzing your fingers and comparing them against the illustration to see if A, B, or C matches up the best with them. Once you choose the closest match it will reveal certain personality aspects that are commonly associated with your finger shape.
The type A finger shape is relatively straight, which corresponds with the following:
– You hide your feelings and don’t like to show outward emotion, yet you’re emotional on the inside – Instead, you pretend to be cool, calm, and collected at all times and like to portray yourself as independent and strong, even if you are not. – You dislike lies and deception, and prefer the truth and fairness.
– You like to laugh, even when nothing is funny, are eccentric, arrogant, helpful, and kind hearted.
– When you first meet someone new you are distant and cold, but once you get to know someone you’re very open and warm.
Type B people have slightly crooked, irregular shaped fingers, which corresponds to:
– You are passive when meeting new people and leave it up to them to make the initial approach.
– You’re a daydreamer with an active imagination, and when you feel hurt you act like you’re okay
– Once you make up your mind to do something you almost always follow through and complete it
– Even though you are the sensitive type, you don’t appear to be so, because you often play off your sensitive side by pretending to not know things in an attempt to protect someone’s feelings.
If you have a type C finger shape, that bulges slightly in the mid section, it corresponds with:
– You have a strong distaste for challenges and don’t deal well with unfamiliar things
– When it comes to other people’s opinions you are respectful and you don’t like to play pretend
– You know what you like and don’t like, can be overbearing at times, are easily touched, and keep your feelings and emotions to yourself.
– You hate being in a fight and rarely stay mad at someone. Instead you forgive easily when someone apologizes, but have to watch yourself because you have a sensitive heart and can be easily hurt.
Check out the short video for more personality information on each of the three types and see if what they reveal about personality traits matches up to yours. This is a fun, easy, and different way to take a moment to yourself in which you can reflect upon, and dig a little deeper into, what makes you who you are! As always, have fun and enjoy!
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THIS Is What The Gap Between Your Fingers Reveals About Your Life!
There are all sorts of ways in which a person’s personality has been linked to different physical attributes on their body. Above all, our hands seem to hold the most information about our lives and they reveal subtle clues in regards to the way we act, make choices, and behave in general.
For example, we often compare and contrast left handed people with individuals who are right hand dominant. Alternatively, in palmistry the lines on the palms of our hands are closely examined, which can indicate our character traits, personality, and destiny in life.
Another way in which we can analyze our personalities is by looking at the gap between our fingers. You can do this by yourself, right here and now, by following the instructions below and looking at the illustrations in the accompanying video and link.
All you have to do is look closely at your hand and compare it against choices A, B, and C to see which one your finger spacing matches up the best with. Once you choose the closest match it will reveal certain personality aspects that are commonly associated with your finger gap.
If you fall under type A and have a large gap that generally corresponds to having a big personality. You are friendly, open, and honest with others, as well as refreshingly straight forward.
Type B people have small gap spaced fingers and are more reserved than their type A counterparts. If you’re type B you have a wonderfully amicable personality and give good advice to others because of your ability to listen well and hear what they are saying.
If you have no gap at all then you are type C and tend to be a very private, reserved person. You like to observe and listen to the world around you and when it comes to trust people have to earn yours.
Check out the short video for more personality information on each of the three types and see if what they reveal about personality traits matches up to yours.
This is a fun, easy, and different way to take a moment to yourself in which you can reflect upon, and dig a little deeper into, what makes you who you are! Follow the guide and find out if what you think describes your personality really and truly matches up with the results. As always, have fun and enjoy!
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This Ink-Blot Test Will Reveal Your Biggest Fear In Life
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Fear is an emotion that every single one of us has experienced at many points in our lives. It’s a natural reaction to feel afraid and no matter what you call it; dread, horror, alarm, terror, panic, distress, fright, or threatened, it’ll always have a negative connotation. However, not all fears are bad and it’s actually quite healthy to feel afraid every now and then.
For most people, things like creepy crawlies or heights freak them out. According to various surveys on the topic the most common fears and phobias have to do with snakes, spiders, cockroaches, public speaking, needles, tight spaces, flying, dogs, water, germs, and death. While people can be afraid of virtually anything and everything, they can only fear on thing the absolute most.
What are you the most afraid of in this world? Put another way, what’s the one singular thing, thought, or idea that is truly capable of filling your mind, body, and soul with dread? No one likes to admit it, yet we all have to face what it is that we fear the most. While it’s natural to instinctively repress and avoid the unpleasant thoughts, we eventually need to deal with it and what better way to do just that than with some basic psychology!
This quiz uses ink-blot images to draw out and assess your deepest, darkest subconscious fears and thoughts. What you end up seeing in each picture ultimately depends on your perception of the world. In turn, part of what molds and shapes your interpretation of all the things that you see and come across in life is your unconscious mind.
It’s usually inaccessible, which is why psychologists have developed tests like the one featured here to draw out and uncover the ideas and information it holds deeply hidden. Projective tests, which include ink-blot tests, are psychological tools that use images, words, or situations to analyze how people respond to them.
An individual is assessed in terms of the unconscious personality traits they exhibit towards the stimulus, in this case the image, and from their response hidden emotions are brought to light. In other words, how you view the ink-blots here will reveal what you fear the most.
With that in mind, are you ready to face your biggest fear? Take this projective ink-blot quiz now and see whether or not you agree with the end results. Enjoy!
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